And let us continue to consider how to motivate one another to love and good deeds, Hebrews 10:24(ISV, International Standard Version)
Do you ever find yourself conversing with someone and you walk away feeling very drained? While it’s never fun to be in that situation, it is a good reminder to make sure our own words do not drain others.
How can we be uplifting in our words? Use encouragement, reveal your concern of the other person, or ask questions to encourage a two-sided conversation. Try this and you will find you have made a positive impact on someone’s day. This positive impact will motivate them to be open to doing acts of love.
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